I'm pretty torn on this one. I was never that deeply in the fandom, so not being in the fandom is like... not a huge ask for me. Like you, I've just been slowly backing away from the whole thing until I'm no longer there at all.

However, I just know so many queer fans who still love the fandom side without supporting JKR, and it feels sometimes like the pressure that video is putting on is bullying trans people who still find solice in the story in a world that's increasingly shitty. I'm not sure what that accomplishes.

Which isn't what you're doing! I just find it frustrating at times.